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However, the proportion of Black men in the UK dating non-Black women eclipses that of Black women doing the same.Their reasons for not dating Black women echo the ubiquitous ‘’they have horrible hair and a bad attitude’’ or ‘‘I’m simply not attracted to them’’.On the other hand, Jem, a fellow Teacher disagrees slightly with Ally and says that like me she isn’t short of attention from Black men, but they aren’t on our wavelength in terms of education, job or outlook.Like many other sisters I know, Jem would rather be in a relationship with a Black man, but realises that she may be waiting forever if she rules out everyone else.
Nothing developed in any of the dates I went on, as it was never clear what the men actually wanted and I doubt I’ll be trying internet dating again.I am a Black British teacher, and many of my friends are also in professional vocations.We are young women open to dating other races, but being open doesn’t necessarily make finding a partner any easier. We’re tired of reading articles that tell us to widen our options as educated women and date men outside our race, because we are attempting this and it is making no difference.I’d like to note here that I don’t live in London, and so the dating experiences of Black women there may be different to those who live outside the capital.I live in a fairly large city, Bristol, and seeing White women with Black men is just as common as seeing White men with White women.
Black men in Bristol don’t give us the time of day.