Dating a reformed player
It may be that the ideal relationship candidate for the reformed male player is his female equivalent – the reformed female player.
Such a couple would understand each other’s past lifestyles, and would share the desire for a fun and active relationship that includes regular sex.
native and an alumnus of the University of the District of Columbia and University of Maryland where she earned a B. A good friend of mine—a reformed player—once told me that in his hound dog days, he could walk into a room of women, sniff out his prey, and easily schedule two hook-ups before the night’s end. He targeted the extremes—the under-confident and overconfident.
The player has become a cultural icon that is both ill respected and widely revered.
Most people imagine the world of players to be one in which phone numbers are abounding and beds are never cool of strangers.
The person who falls in love with an ex-player must have a strong view of the present and future with their elusive mate, and almost no eye for the past.
The new woman in a male ex-player’s life must not be the kind of girl who wonders with every phone call or text message if her man will lose his resolve.
In light of their avoidance of “settling down” in the past, there are several important issues that players must consider before entering a serious relationship.